I am in a bit of a confused mess. I had every intention of bfing my baby for more than a year, but after 6 months of completed nursing, when I started her on solids she gradually lost interest in the nursing. She was nursing less and less and was not taking a bottle to make up, so her weight gain was very small. I was so concerned that I coaxed her into taking some formula and then the nursing stopped completely. Even if she latches on, she does not really pull to get anything. My milk of course is going away and I am really sad now. I also had to start taking birth control pills recently for some ovarian cysts and I was so worried that they would not be good for her, that I really did not push the nursing when she was letting go of it. After about 2 to 3 weeks of no nursing, I am feeling like I did something wrong. What should I do? I am very confused. Any advise would be greatly appreciated. Thanks a lot in advance.