Re: i guess it's time to wean...
As a toddler, DS would not nurse in public and often only a couple of times in a whole weekend if we were out of town, but at home he nursed frequently. He didn't wean until he was a preschooler. It is typical for a toddler to still "need" to nurse even if they don't nurse completely consistently. (Very toddler-like behavior.) And, even a weaned 14 mo isn't always ready to be left while you go on trips alone (at least I'm guessing this is what your husband refers to.) As with most other parenting issues, communication is key, and when you can't agree, finding a compromise. Oh, and learning to hand express can really help to make life with an unpredictably nursing toddler tolerable for momma.
DS 1/2006 9 lb. 2 oz. 22 in.
DD 10/2008 8 lb, 2 oz. 20 in.