Thanks everyone for the supportive comments! I just wanted to pop here and say, I think things are improving. Well, we'll know for sure when PMS rolls around again! BUT, I have been doing the twinkle-twinkle thing, and when I don't want to nurse, I just tell him we'll nurse later, and I let him tantrum if that's what's going to happen. The last couple of times we were in public it wasn't quite so bad ... I don't know if that's a coincidence or what, but you folks gave me the confidence I needed to finally stick to some "rules" around nursing. Thanks, and I'll keep working on it.