Are you using the Haberman or the Meade Johnson feeder? if you are using the Haberman I actually still have 3 never used nipples and valves for the bottles. They are yours if you want them. I have no use for them anymore thats for sure!
So sorry the palate is involved as well, but it sounds like it isnt complete with the palate, which will be better in the long run.
From a momma who has BTDT, if you need anything, even just to vent or chat...please feel free to PM me anytime.
Oh, and I pumped for 11 months for my DS, I wouldnt have it any other way!