Re: about to give up...
Welcome and congratulations on the new baby! Sorry you've had such a hard time with her. But there's still a lot of hope for getting breastfeeding back on track. I've heard that many preterm babies don't really start to get the hang of breastfeeding until around their original due date- up to that point they may be too small or tired to really get the job done.
Okay, regarding low supply, here are some useful links:
And here are some on feeding the baby as you try to get your supply up:
http://www.kellymom.com/bf/concerns/...to-breast.html (In particular, the more skin-to-skin contact you can do, the better!)
How often are you pumping?
Coolest thing my big girl said recently: "How can you tell the world is moving when you are standing on it?"
Coolest thing my little girl sang recently: "I love dat one-two pupples!"