Hi i'm a 28 yr old single mother of 5 beautiful little boys. my boys ages are 10, 6, 4, 4, and 3 weeks... i nursed my 6 yr old for 2 1/2 months, and my twins for 4 weeks.. and i am currently nursing my 3 week old. My boys are some what on the wild side... they aren't so bad when i'm up and around because i can get after them, how ever when i nurse the baby they seem to be more of a handful because they know i can't get up and get after them or that i don't want to put the baby in the middle of the action. i've become some what frustrated with the whole breast feeding experience in the past few days. Some issues i'm having with the experience are sore nipples, long feedings, the baby sleeps long periods, the other boys want to be right there asking all kinds of questions and looking and hanging on and around me. i've given the baby a few formula bottles because of the situation, and he has no problem with nipple confusion he latches fine for the most part and drinks from the bottle well too. when i latch him on now he tugs at my breast, and also gets choked up like i'm having an over active let down, i guess what i'm looking for is ideas to keep the other boys busy while i nurse, and ways to cope with their constant questions, as well as ways to help the baby nurse more effectively and efficiantly and make it a better overall experience for all of us... i've seriously considered pumping and feeding with a bottle although that means getting a pump i can't afford to get... and let me just add in here a hand pump is no good for me... i just don't have that kind of time... so if you have any suggestions or ideas i'm open to anything... thank you.