Dh was telling some of the people he works with about what is going on with lo. Said how we were going to get his tongue tie fixed, one of the ladies told him not to get it done and that I need to stop bf him and just go to a bottle. He came home yesterday and told me this. Well that is not an option to me and even if I were not bf I would want to get it fixed anyway to minimize problems as he gets older.
When I was talking to dh earlier he said that they were talking again and he mentioned how I feed him about every 2 hours, she told him I need to start giving him cereal. He is a month old. There is no way I am going to give him any kind of solid. He said that this lady gave her kids cereal when they were 3 weeks old. I had to explain to dh that Tanner is to young and he is gaining weight very good. (He was 8lbs 13oz two weeks ago, yesterday he was 10lbs 3oz so he is doing great) And besides that I knew what it was going to be like, I knew that bf baby's eat more often and it was a decision I made.
I have already talked to dh about all this stuff, many times. He is thinking that because this lady is a little older and her kids are grown, what she is saying is better then what I am doing.
This is just from one person, we are getting advice from other people also that I ignore but I am not sure how long I can stay nice about it before dh says "well she said to do this.." and I go off on him lol
How do you deal with advice (bad advice)?