dd turned 3 on 10/10 and is still nursing. She only nurses to sleep and early in the morning before getting up (& the occasional nap time on the weekend). I would like to gently wean her soon (I'd hoped she'd do it herself, but it doesn't look like that's happening any time soon, of course, she's also not big on potty training or sleeping in her own bed which are the other issues we're about to tackle). Any suggestions on how to talk to her about it or encourage her to make it more her idea? I don't want to just say "that's it, no more", but I would like her to be done in the next few months at most.