I'm looking for help with my two nurslings. Both are beyond a year old. My oldest is 3 and a half and my youngest is one and a half. they are the youngest of 6. I'm beyond busy and stressed and my three year old's nursing is a little overwhelming. I want him to nurse less but I'm not sure how. I want him to be happy and not cry so much when i refuse. He still nurses on demand and up until recently he nursed much more than his younger brother ever has. I've done the counting, singing the ABC's, i've tried giving him 'boobie hugs' so he can still be near me, I've tried changing the subject...I've done a lot to try to fix this but he still wants boob ALL. DAY. LONG. Help?