I just nightweaned my DD and not only did it help her to start STTN, I too don't have that resentful feeling when I hear her stirring in the morning. I bring her to bed and we cuddle and nurse
I also think that my DH will continue to be supportive of our nursing relationship as she passes the baby phase (she's 15 mo.) since I'm not a walking zombie...well most of the time.
Nightweaning was hard, but only took us about a week. I mostly used techniques from Dr. Gordon. Consistency was the key.