Re: Desperate to wean
you've given a lot to your child here. and pp's are right to say that both you and your child are behaving in totally normal and predictable ways. i was talking to someone the other day and their partner had told her daughter 'the milk shops shut, you'll have to have fish fingers instead'. because of the age your child's at, you have the tool of language, i'd use that to explain where you stand and stick to it. commit to being unavailable, to gently teaching your child social norms surrounding breasts and try to catch that urge to slap your childs hand away as though a stranger had groped you in the street. be gentle be persistent set boundaries, good luck. i hugely admire you for giving so much of yourself, it sounds like it's time to take back a little ground.
hope that helps... we're not where you are yet but i do know the feelings you've described
Art student and Mummy to Luca born 12th June 09 and Elidi 18th of May 11
How can time go quite so fast