Proud mama to my 2 little high needs "koala bears":
Ethan born 8/23/08
Bfed for 22 months, weaned with love 7/2010
Lucas, born 1/6/11
Nursing strong for 19 MONTHS!
Cloth diapering 1 full-time even though I'm constantly ! Currently in potty training mode. We also and
It sounds like all ended well. You two have so much to be proud of!!
As far as your first q: no correlation here. All 3 trained early-20 months, 29 months and 21 months. Oldest nursed 2 1/2 years, son nursed till his 5th birthday and my baby is 30 months and no weaning happening here.