Only had time to read the first couple of posts..I never ever in my wildest dreams imagined I'd be nursing a 'tot, but it's really sweet and awesome and I love it. And I definately get squirted with BM in the face quite often...especially when lying down, ALSO, you know you're feeding a toddler when she'll come up to you (or you're lying down) and she will nurse any which way/position just to get some nu'nu. She's my babe, I love her so much, I was really nervous about tandem BF, but it's turned out to be a piece of cake! (except for those common mornings when I wake up with my back killing because I have baby on one side and big girl in my arm snuggled up against the nip' on the other side..and I wake up realizing I must have been in that position for a long time, cuz it hurts!!) She's sweet.