I'm really sorry that you're having to go through this during your pregnancy! I would definitely talk to my lawyer and use those links posted earlier. Other posters had good comments about whether your husband wants overnight visits so soon. My DD is almost 5 weeks old and I haven't had a full nights sleep for.....you guessed it, almost 5 weeks! Does he work? Going to work after caring for a newborn all night is very hard. My husband lets me do ALL of the caregiving at night because he can't handle it( men are such babies!LOL) . I would talk to your husband about it. Good luck and if you need to vent, I'm here!