It's more DH than me but he makes me paranoid. And when I say she'll be fine he tells me I'm not respecting his feelings of being concerned, etc. So then I question whether she will be ok. But we went through this with K so... I'm also more inclined to second guess because of Lu's aversions and allergies but really I don't need to be hyperviligant. Our house is a safe food place for her.
Lynn, thanks for the link.
Erin and Eris, thanks for the ideas. I'm gonna make oatmeal this morning and see if she has any interest.