I know how you feel. As an exclusive pumper, I had a set schedule. Luckily my DD loved to nap at just the right times! I made all my appointments and my outings based on my schedule and worked around her nap times. It got easier when I went to 4 to 5 hour stretches between pumps. I would have everything ready to go in the car before I pumped. Then as soon as I was done, I was like in a race to use all my precious time before I'd have to be back to pump. Then I got smart and started pumping EVERYWHERE! I used a nursing wrap to cover myself and I've pumped at numerous airports (including JFK where I had to ask someone to move a seat for the outlet and boy did he move fast). I've pumped on planes, in train stations, at Macy's, restaurants, at weddings, at a Bar Mitzvah too! I just ask for a private space and I usually get no problem. I just use the wrap and some people think I'm actually holding a baby under there : ) My father in law used to leave the room even though I was under wraps! But now he's so used to it, he justs asks, "What's that noise? OH! It's the pump, right!" I even tell my friends that I love having their company in the same room if they would talk to me while I pump and boy have I changed a lot of perceptions. I like to think I made more people aware of breastfeeding by my going "public" while pumping. So don't be hiding the beautiful fact that you are feeding your LO the best stuff in the world.