I am sorry you are going through this experience. I am thrilled at all of the great supportive posts!! I am currently nursing a 4.8 year old and a 24 month old. Extended nursing is a blessing. You are doing a wonderful job by letting your child self wean.
One of the pp made a great suggestion about providing your attorney with information concerning extended nursing. I am not sure where you live but there might be female lawyers in your area who actually are a part of LLL or have extended nursed themselves. I would recommend that you contact your local LLL Leader for some possible referrals. I am happy to offer any help if you want to pm me for more information.
Hang in there!!