Re: alone at meetings...
There are some LLL Groups that have so many working mothers that the SAHM's feel left out. It really varies by area. You could ask your Leaders to put together an enrichment meeting for working mothers, so that you have a way to meet and support each other. If you'd volunteer to find the location, and help advertise, I'm hoping the Leaders wouldn't mind showing up!
Have you looked at www.workandpump.com? How about joining some of the email lists for working and pumping mothers? Yahoo!groups has a few, and some of the blogging sites have support systems in place.
Finding support for you is very important - get creative!
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