I not sure what I can do..
I am really stressed out right now. My dh isn't very supportive of the bf issue. whenever there is any problems he uses the "F" word (formula) as a way to solve the problem..He seems to think that it would be a h*ll of alot easier than the bf feeding..
So there is lots of tension between us anymore. I have tried letting him know how I feel about this and why it is so important for me and her to have my milk. I even have lecture in bathroom so that he can read for himself all of the benefits that bf has to offer and it shows how formula lacks much of the needed things to help dd to grow and be heathly.
I know that this is affecting my supply which is causing my dd problems as well.. The biggest time she seems affected by it is the last feedings of the night, it's like she isn't getting enough to eat.. I am working on building a reserve in the freezer so at least she can get bf from a bottle, but with all of this that isn't happening. My best time of day for getting extra milk is first thing in the morning (before she eats I get more)
So I really don't know what to do or say right now to him. I really need his support bc it really goes a long way in making this whole process easier..
Any suggestions on what I can do to de-stress to help both my dd and I???