I'm not sure where to put this, so I'll try here. I've read that if you massage a baby's gums before their teeth start to come in, it will make it less painful for them. Is that true? Would I just massage with my fingers, or should I get some of that baby orajel stuff to massage onto her gums? I don't want to use the orajel if there are any ingredients that could hurt her. Is there something else I could do?