We are planning our second child, which is glorious. However I am worried about our older son. He was put on the cup around his first birthday and he certainly can't remember getting fed before that. How will it effect him pyschologically to see me feeding a younger sibling from what, by then, he will know as a private part (he will be six if all goes well with the conception)?
Any suggestions as to deal with this will be appreciated.
Also my cousin who formula fed the first one is about to deal with the same situation (her older kid is 5 and the new one due in August). Should she tell the child the truth, that he was not breast fed and possibly cause him to feel inferior or less loved than his younger sibling? Or lie to him?
We have both scoured the web for articles or books on the matter and so far absolutely no luck.