I have had so many issues with this, it's rediculous. Why do the grandparents of all people NOT RESPECT THE PARENTS WISHES?! My father-in-law has been the worst. Not only has he attempted ice cream, licorice, fortune cookies, french fries, but last weekend BEER. Who the hell gives an infant beer?! We have had issues from the begining of them not respecting me and my wishes as the mother. They've been talked to so many times. I am to the point where I don't want my child around them. It is sad that they have put us in this position. Stand your ground mama! I am glad your mother-in-law is behind you on this. I would suggest working this out asap so your situation doesn't get to where mine is.