When your LO wants to nurse but you don't want to and you tell them "I'll give you milk when I am finished with X" Do you always nurse them after "x"? If they forget, do you remind them, or do you just let them come back and ask again later? Usually I remind him because I don't want to be lying to him. I don't know if he'll remember when he gets older that I tried to truthful, but on the chance that he will, this is usually what I do. Sometimes, when I offer after making him wait, he's too busy for it anyway.
DS is 23 months, btw.