Re: Engorged after abrupt weaning; need help.
I would suggest you pump just enough to relieve the engorgement and make yourself comfortable. You may have to continue to do this for a while, but without ever emptying your breast- or getting close to it- you will signal your body to make less and less milk. You will be able to space out the pumping more and more and eventually stop.
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