Thanks so much for all the responses. A little bit from each of you equals a lot of good support for me.
I am taking all of this in and gradual is best. And after reading the article Mommal posted on international average of weaning, it reinforces that I don't want to do anything before Norah is ready.
I am trying the "ask nicely" bit and she either doesn't understand or is not willing at this point. She is so crazy. She'll be repeating, "Mursh, mursh, mursh...while tugging on my shirt and if I don't say or do anything she grabs my face and makes eye contact and says what I'm supposed to say, "okay, okay, okay!" What am I going to do with this little Pepper!?
I feel like the Mama who cries wolf, I keep saying I'm gonna wean her and I know I'm not ready.