I was just going to EP but I've changed my mind... I don't want to give up nursing... Not when I know that I could use an SNS and keep her at the breast. Even if I had to use the SNS forever, I'd rather do that.
The Lact-Aid seems to be the best for discreet, long term use. I'll need to use this setup even when out and the lact-aid has the option to buy a little pocket that clips to the bra instead of around the neck... The downside is the cost of the lactaid bags... Can I use them more than once? She's 5 weeks old so nursing every 2 to 2.5 hours. That's a lot of bags...
The Medela is reuseable but not as comfortable looking or discreet.