Thanks for all the responses and valuable information
Oddly enough MIL breastfed DH and his brother, and donated tons of breastmilk! (She said its unfortunate its not as easy to do so now as it was 29 years ago when DH was born). I'm fairly close with her and I know she doesn't mean to be rude or disrespectful....I think this might be a case of her being a little jealous that she's not as involved as she would like to be with DD. I spoke frequently when I was pregnant about my intentions to BF and she seemed very supportive, then a few weeks before my due date she asked me if I had enough formula stocked up..? I kind of gave her a funny look and said, no I told you I was going to BF. She then said "oh thats good, thats best for baby I suppose but your going to be housebound and no one can babysit". Then on Christmas DD was very fussy and wanted to feed often and since I'm not comfortable nursing in front of DH's family I spent quite a bit of time in the bedroom with DD. I could tell she was frustrated that this was something only I could do that no one could be a part of (although thats one of the things I enjoy about it!) . She keeps pushing me to pump and let people bottle feed but I'd like to avoid that until DD is much older to avoid nipple confusion....and quite frankly I love having that time alone with her.
I'm definitely going to give her some literature on BFing to 1 and beyond and see how she reacts. At the end of the day i'm not going to let her stop me from doing something I feel strongly about so hopefully a year from now I will be talking about how wonderful it is to still be BFing
And Kudos to all of you still BFing past one! Your truly an inspiration to me