So, if you followed my other thread, I'm heading out on a business trip for the next several days and contemplating using this as an opportunity to wean 16mos DD. I've pretty much decided (I think...bound to change my mind...again) that I won't offer when I get home and see what happens.
Anywho, so potentially last night was my last time nursing DD (she only nurses at night now). So, as DH and I settle into bed I comment, "Well, this might be the last night I nurse DD." And DH responds, "Uh huh." That's it. Nothing else. So I now I'm feeling upset and honestly, I wasn't that upset about the last session because I'm not 100% it was the last session. But now I'm upset that DH isn't being supportive. So, he says, "Are you upset?" And I say, "Yeah, thinking about weaning DD makes me a bit sad." And again, nothing from him. No, "You shouldn't be sad, you've done such a great thing and 16mos is quite an accomplishment." Or, "If you are sad about it then don't do it." Or even, "I can see why you'd be sad. I'm here for you." Nope. Not a word. Two minutes later DD wakes up crying and I go nurse her some more. End of our conversation.
I guess what upsets me is that he has always been so encouraging and supportive of my nursing DD and even suggested that I take pumping back up a few months ago when we were trying to determine if DD had a milk allergy saying that he wanted to make sure she was getting good nutrition. So WTF DH?
So I now that the sense that he's been wanting the weaning to happen for some time now and I can only imagine what he'll think (and yet not say) if I take nursing back up when I return from the trip.