Re: Gimme some advice on weaning...
What worked for me to wean off nursing to sleep was to say, "I'm going to sing Twinkle Twinkle 3 times and then no more milk." And then that's exactly what I did. I'd nurse her as long as I was singing and then no more (I could sing slower or faster depending on whether I felt like she needed more or less time). She only fussed at me a few minutes for a few days before she was OK with it. Occasionally she'd decide to get mad about it, but I didn't give in (except one time when I could tell she was not feeling well) and she eventually accepted it.
Then you can either cut the time down slowly (only sing it 2 times, then 1 time...) or your lo might just stop expecting it. I didn't have to cut the time down, I just stopped offering it and then if she'd ask I'd say, "Ok you can have milk, but I'm going to sing Twinkle Twinkle 3 times and then no more milk." and she eventualy stopped asking.
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