I work in a large college, and I'll be using the nursery there. Luckily, in Britain, we're pretty much entitled to take breastfeeding breaks, so although I won't be able to make every session, I should be able to nurse her at least twice a day.
We did have the argument I predicted last night, and he's tried quite a bit harder today. That, however, might have been due to the fact that Lilly woke up in the night twice for the first time in weeks!
Thank you so much for your advice and for listening to me, I really appreciate it more than you know, and I think I'm going to try the direct request route! We'll see how far it gets me. Usually it's a cycle as pp have said, i explode, he gets better, I leave off he gets worse. I don't want to be reminding him all the time, but if that's how it's got to be for now... I guess I adapt quicker than him too
to all you lovely lovely ladies