yeah my mom bf me but by 6 months she had me totally weaned to solid foods and maybe some formula. So before DS was even born she was saying stuff like "well if you can make it 6 months that is fine, then you can do formula". So here I am still nursing at 13 months... they used to make comments to me about how I should wean at a year, but they don't do that anymore. I think it does help that they watch DS one day per week and have seen his lack of interest in eating solid foods, so they realize he needs the milk still. but I know that their comments are forthcoming.