I am going to start pumping to build a supply for when I return to work. I would also like to have some stored milk for DH to get to feed and if I need to be away for a date night or something. After reading many LLLI posts, I gather that the way to start is to either double pump after the baby feeds, or pump one breast while baby feeds on the other. My questions is, lets say I have DH give the baby a bottle of BM, do I need to then pump to make up for that missed feeding? What if we have a "date-night" and I miss a feeding, do I have to pump at the same time I would normally feed? I am confused, b/c I would love for DH to get some bonding time by feeding, but does it really give me any sort of a break if I have to pump anyway? how do i handle the date night scenario or other times where i can't pump at the exact time i would normally feed? any help or advice is greatly appreciated. baby is 4 weeks old and is exclusivley breastfed.