I agree with what all the ladies said above. I urge you to go to the meetings, I started going because I felt I needed to "connect with other Mommies" and just get out of the house. I was shy, and nervous about breastfeeding in public, but when I started to go the meetings and saw how relaxed it was and all the other Mom's have a breast out feeding their baby, it was much easier for me to relax. Now, I've become friends with a few! Give it a try!