My cousin just had a baby on the 21st. She is having trouble since they left the hospital. DS is over a year old now, so I don't remember much that could be helpful to her. I keep checking on her and she says she needs help. She will probably call me later and ask me to come over and help her. What are some important things to keep in mind. Technique, positions, what worked for you? Also, her babe might need hin frenulum(is that right?) clipped, it is a little tight. I think she is trying to use a paci, will that cause problems?