Lately I am notcing that ds is not as interested in nursing as he used to be. He will always nurse and never refuses but it seems more as though I am offereing and then he "remembers" oh wait I want to do that. We are only nursing 2-3 times during the week and 3-4 times on the weekend. I am just not sure what self weaning looks like and wondering should I continue to offer? i personally don't see the harm but comments have been made that he wouldn't know the difference and I am the one keeping the relationship going...BTW I know that's not true because when he is upset and I sit down with him, he will push himself into our nursing position and get happy and excited... What does self weaning look like?