I've been reading on the internet for a week now and keep getting conflicting advice! I'm so tired of dealing with constant leaking, sore nipples, and engorgement (which I have read is only supposed to last 12-48 hours)...I am going on a week now. I've tried cabbage, massage, cold compresses & hot compresses (again, due to conflicting advice), lansinoh, pumping a little to relieve engorgement so my baby can latch on, breast feeding often (like this site says), allowing my breasts to remain full to slow production (like another site said). I am so confused and frustrated. My daughter is a great nurser, so I am very fortunate there (my first, a boy, was not, and I had all these same problems in addition to his problems). I'm very determined to breastfeed, as I did with my son (though I had to pump the entire time). I don't want to pump with my daughter, it isn't necessary - but I have GOT to resolve some of these issues. Especially the constant leaking. I can't even go anywhere, it's not just when I'm nursing or when my milk comes in...it's almost constantly. PLEASE HELP if you have any advice.