i thought id share the two resources that are really helping me as a new mommy (besides these forums of course!). a mom on here suggested (cant remember who but THANK U!) I read "the no-cry sleep solution." awesome!! totally recommend this book! read it while you are nursing so you dont take away any of that precious sleep time . another great resource is "the happiest baby on the block" ...i have the dvd...watch it! its done wonders for my family . just thought id share....maybe these things will help other mommies! GL!