i have been working with a few consultants for the past month on trying to help my daughter with latching. my right breast especially lets down fast and furious and because my nipple is so large and my daughter's mouth is so small, she drowns and consequently either unlatches and has a fit, clamps down on my nipple with all her might, or slides her latch onto the end of my nipple. i have been trying to get her to open her mouth wider for the latch, but only succeed sometimes. it is especially hard when she keeps her eyes closed for the latch when she's tired and we end up having a crying fit because i either won't let her have it until she opens her eyes, or am constantly relatching for the optimal latch. most folks say count my blessings that i have enough milk, and that i'll have to wait it out until her mouth is big enough to handle the flow. i also tried to feed on one side at a time and even block feeding on one side, but that didn't affect my production. i also frequently pump for the initial letdown on my right side and sometimes this helps sometimes not. any suggestions? i have been emotional on and off about this because i sometimes just get so tired of trying so hard and want it to be easier for her and me. does anyone have any good tips or majical solutions?