I wish that....
* I had 7 arms to bf.
2 to help situate the pillows, 1 to hold my breast, 1 to hold my lo's head, 1 to hold my lo's hands (they are always in the way), 1 to hold my drink, and 1 to hold the remote (or book, or phone).
* I could sit next to each mom struggling to get the hang of bfing and tell them they are doing great and that they CAN do it! And that they would do the same for me.
* that my emotions were not so directly tied to the amount of sleep that I get (is anyone getting sleep???)
* that those books and articles that say bf doesn't hurt if you are doing it correctly would just be honest and say that for many of us - it WILL hurt for the first few weeks but that it will get better.
* that I didn't feel so much "Mommy Guilt" about everything! (not having enough time to spend with older childen when an infant is around, crying during bf sessions, going back to work, etc.)