DD is only six months right now, and I wouldn't even think of weaning her for at least another year. Here's the thing though...I've been trying so hard to decide whether I should wait for DD to want to stop nursing before DH and I try to get pregnant again (which I wouldn't try to do for another year at least), or if I should just try to get pregnant around this time next year, like we originally planned, and see if she nurses through pregnancy. I just don't know what would be best for her. We planned on having children relatively close together, and we'd like to have three or four altogether. But I don't want pregnancy to bring an abrupt and/or traumatic ending to DD's BFing relationship with me. Basically, I just want to do what's right...But I have no idea what that is. It would break my heart for her to be sad about my drop in milk supply while pregnant, etc. But if she's not ready to wean until she's four or something--that just seems like it would be a long time between siblings, and we might not be able to have the number of children we'd planned on having then. Argh. Any thoughts on this? I'm so confused about what's generally the ideal re: weaning.