Well my beautiful baby girl has been down to one feeding before bed for a couple months now. She is offically 20 months tomorrow and for the past few weeks she has not asked for her bedtime bootie. A small part of me is sad but to be honest I'm glad were done. My goal was 1 year, and once we reached that my goal was 18 months. I would probably do it longer but I'm with #2 and due in early Nov so I would like a break, to be honest I really didn't want to tandem, its just not for me. I won't say no if Claire asks when the next one comes but I will try to offer her some other mommy time instead if I can.
So thanks to everyone who offered help or encouragement when needed. I never thought I'd make it this far. Most of my friends stopped before or at a year so it was nice to chat with those who went longer. I'll have about a 6 month break and then I'll be at it again... probably for another 18 months since that will be my goal with my second.