For the past couple of weeks my little girl has been waking multiple times during the night for feeds and i am exhausted !!! She was sleeping in the bed with me and had been getting feeds on demand . I had only been bfing her at bedtime or during the night . I decided to try to get her sleeping in her own bed and to start weaning her , so the first night i bf her put her in the cot and let her scream it out only feeding her once later on . Last night i gave her formula and she did not wake all night , to my complete shock . However i am now really engorged and a bit weepy . What i want is to bf her before bed till my supply is down and then stop , i feel this way i can say goodbye to bfing and not suffer the pain of engorgement . Is this wise/fair to do considering she is taking formula for me at bedtime now ? will i confuse her ? is it possible that the old system could return ? Is it too late to implement this sytem now because i have not fed her for nearly over nearly 36 hours ( will engorgement get worse ) ?