My Elena has just weaned. she's almost two years old. She was a very frequent nurser and I feel like I have nursed her for four years in two. I decided to wean her because it began to take a real toll on my health and my family. I felt like I was in a fog towards the end. I tried to wean gradually but that did not work with her very strong personality. Since weaning, although she's still my happy and energetic child during the day, she has a very difficult time going to sleep.. it can take 3 or 4 hours for her to settle.. even with the same routine every night. She also has started pulling on her eyelashes during those times. She was used to nursing to sleep. She also has been fighting a cold and it seems to be lingering on and on. Sometimes I entertain the thought of nursing her again to get her to settle at night, and give her the immunities she may be needing, but I am concerned we will end up full time(including 3-4 times during the night) again and me being completely drained. Also I do not know if I still have milk after almost a month not nursing. Any thoughts good mothers?