My DD is almost 3 now and she's slept in my bed since she was born and always nursed to sleep and i feel i'm too tired to do it anymore. I'm a single mom and worn out. I feel i have no time to myself and could use some free time at night or during nap time. She stays latched on to sleep through her whole nap so i can't move and at night i'm lucky if i can sneak away for an hour before she wakes up and realizes i'm not by her side. And when she does wake she has to nurse again and then sometimes won't go to sleep for hours because i think she is afraid i'm going to leave the room again. this past week she's been keeping me up till midnight and i've been overtired and i lose my patience and get mad and tell her she is going to start sleeping in her own bed because she's too big now and we are both too cranky the next day from not getting enough sleep. I feel bad saying that to her but at midnight when im exhausted and its been going on for days in a row i can't take it anymore. I need some time for myself as i am with her all day also as i watch kids in my home so i can be with her all day. So does anyone have any ideas on how to get her to start sleeping in her own bed and possibly to stop nursing? I dont want to tramatize her by taking away her 2 comfort zones but i'm afraid i'm going to lose it if i dont change this soon.