Well, I called back my lactation consultant much to my husband's pocket books dismay. And we reintroduced the ol' SNS. So she is back on my breast, and the SNS is still a pain. So far she is staying on when i use the SNS, and sucking so much better. I feel like we made alot of progress. I have had 3 feedings strictly on my boobs so far. And i am so happy. I don't even care if it takes 3 months to get her to stay latched on without the SNS at this point. Apparently she is too impatient for a letdown. It is still a struggle to get her on even with the SNS, but hey at least she's on there. Wish me luck. And thank you for all you advice and help! I welcome even more advice if you have any!