I just wanted to tell all of you mom's who are working and pumping that you are doing a great job. I worked until DS1 was almost 2 so I can relate to just about every one of your post. It can be a struggle at times but it is so worth it.
I had relatives tell me my LO would be more attached to my daycare provider than to me but it never happened. I really do feel that it was because of the effort I went through. Keep up the great job.