hello. i have searching for a thread that talks about this and haven't been able to find anything. so if i over looked i'm sorry. i am very new to this message board stuff. well to start i have 5 boys. i should be a pro right? WRONG. it amazes me every time how differetn each one is. anyway, my younges is 9 mths(almost 10 mths). we co sleep since day one. i nursed all the kids and the last three we co sleeped. well the problem i am having now is that the baby will not and can not go to sleep without me laying with him while he nurses. i can't rock him, walk him, pet him, anything but lay down and nurse. i personally don't have a problem if it were just him and me, but i have a full house and it is starting to cause some conflict and jealousy. i can't let him cry, tried it. no one in the house can let him cry as far as that goes. my question is this.. will he eventually learn to go to sleep by his self? or will i being laying down next to him and nursing him when he leaves for college? thank you for any advice and help.