That's how I feel - I just wish nursing a toddler didn't have such a negative connotation. But you're right - we aren't going to change the view of nursing if we keep hiding it. I remember when I first started nursing in public, I felt uncomfortable but I would tell myself "I'm meeting my baby's needs and there's nothing wrong with that." Now I'll just insert toddler into that. I wish I knew more people who nursed their toddlers.
Thanks for everyone's responses!