actually i have a small problem that has to do with that. My date due will be 20th August to my 1st baby. Until now i knew that i will get back to work after 40 days. I will work as a teacher 20 hours per week. Now i know that i have to go back to work after 20 days. So my fear was and still is the nipple confusion. I'm planning pumping in order to have at least 2 - 3 bottles in the fridge. My mom or my husband is going to give the bottle to her. My fear was that she'll refuse my breast if she feels the bottle more easy food for her. Now i've heard form a colleague that her daugher after 3 months exclusive BF she was totally refusing the bottle, crying and remaining hungry 8 hours when she was away. Of course i will be away just 5 hours, but it's still too much for her and really early for both of us. Now i hear these things from you. What am i going to do? Did anyone had the same experience with me?