Ok, its been at least a week since I cut out all day nursings and I'm still experiencing a little engorgement by 7 pm....and my dd doesn't nurse for the night until around 9 pm and so on throughout the night. Also, I am still continually having let downs throughout the day. Is this normal? And how long does it take for the let downs to stop and milk to slow down production during the day. My dd only nurses at night...after I wean her from the night feedings will I continue to have let downs and engorgement after we are completely weaned? How soon after weaning does all that stop, or does it continue to happen until you are completely dried up? The let downs make me extremely self-conscious...well because they are a little painful (always have been for me) and the only way I know how to stop them from leaking all over my shirt (regardless of pads) is to hold down the nipples to stop the flow....which is very tricky to do in public. thanks for any suggestions and advice!!